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PostPosted: Mon Nov 06, 2023 11:21 pm 
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Well, I very nearly quit my job today.

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Well, I very nearly quit my job today.

What happened? Also, what would be your situation if you did? I get the feeling that you entertained the notion quite a few times in the last... year, possibly more.

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 08, 2023 5:17 pm 
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Barinellos wrote:
Well, I very nearly quit my job today.

What happened? Also, what would be your situation if you did? I get the feeling that you entertained the notion quite a few times in the last... year, possibly more.

Basically just unwilling to be in a negative environment anymore.
There's virtually no positive reinforcement in the job as it is, and if you tell someone they're bad at something long enough, eventually you'll be right.
Not to mention that you get to a point that it's reeeeeal hard to feel invested in doing well if you are probably going to just get bitched at anyway. Again, self fulfilling prophecy there.

As to my situation, I'd have to curb spending habits, but I have savings and I'd likely not tarry much in putting in applications to various places. Though given burnt out, I might take a few weeks to myself to just reset.

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 08, 2023 8:46 pm 
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Barinellos wrote:
Well, I very nearly quit my job today.

What happened? Also, what would be your situation if you did? I get the feeling that you entertained the notion quite a few times in the last... year, possibly more.

Basically just unwilling to be in a negative environment anymore.
There's virtually no positive reinforcement in the job as it is, and if you tell someone they're bad at something long enough, eventually you'll be right.
Not to mention that you get to a point that it's reeeeeal hard to feel invested in doing well if you are probably going to just get bitched at anyway. Again, self fulfilling prophecy there.

As to my situation, I'd have to curb spending habits, but I have savings and I'd likely not tarry much in putting in applications to various places. Though given burnt out, I might take a few weeks to myself to just reset.

I am becoming increasingly familiar with that feeling, as well.

Hopefully things get better for you soon, and if you do decide to leave, I hope the transition is as smooth as possible.


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 10, 2023 9:26 pm 
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So, I showed off a few of the Goblin figurines I did around and everyone seemed surprisingly impressed.
So much so, I have a potential commission. Possibly more, actually, as the guy has a different play group than the crowd I usually service and seemingly none of his guys are satisfied with the painting they can do.

In other news, I seriously wish I had someone to Converse with about comic books, albeit the exact depth that I do as well. In the late 90's there was an event where Marvel and DC had a massive crossover. Part of the event is that the universes actually merged together into the "Amalgam Comics" line, where characters literally fused with one another.
Some of the characters were... Products of their time and consequently haven't aged well. But it's the kind of thought experimenting I keep coming back to over and over, trying to create the best possible synergy of combinations and construct the history, but I have nobody I can bounce the ideas off of.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 21, 2023 6:10 pm 
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Barinellos wrote:
What happened? Also, what would be your situation if you did? I get the feeling that you entertained the notion quite a few times in the last... year, possibly more.

Basically just unwilling to be in a negative environment anymore.
There's virtually no positive reinforcement in the job as it is, and if you tell someone they're bad at something long enough, eventually you'll be right.
Not to mention that you get to a point that it's reeeeeal hard to feel invested in doing well if you are probably going to just get bitched at anyway. Again, self fulfilling prophecy there.

As to my situation, I'd have to curb spending habits, but I have savings and I'd likely not tarry much in putting in applications to various places. Though given burnt out, I might take a few weeks to myself to just reset.

I am becoming increasingly familiar with that feeling, as well.

Hopefully things get better for you soon, and if you do decide to leave, I hope the transition is as smooth as possible.
Yeah, what Raven said. I hope the situation turns out well for you. In related news, I've found a new job, I'm starting in December.

Also, I recently learned that my former Magic playgroup has largely fallen apart and only a small handful of people still play the game on a semi-regular basis. Part of it is due to real life factors like people moving away or having kids, but some people genuinely have lost interest in Magic and are focusing on other hobbies, and there seems to be an increasing frustration because people find it harder and harder to agree on how they want to play Magic (Which formats? What powerlevel? Online or in person? Proxies, yes or no? If yes, for which cards and with what kind of aesthetic? Universes Beyond as a self-contained thing or mixed with regular Magic? Stuff like that). Seems like people just have to compromise constantly and are having less fun overall. Certain people getting along less and less with certain other people also seems to be a factor, and so is me not being around anymore to hold the group together and connect different parts of that network (there was an influx of new people who brought in more new people who in turn brought in other new people etc. around two years ago, which was nice in the short run because it helped us replace folks who had moved away, but but it also led to a fractured and much less centralised group with fewer and fewer personal connections between members). So while some of that is just life, it's also partly what WotC have brought upon themselves. Fracturing the playerbase (in the sense that what some people want out of Magic has nothing to do with what others might want) and driving away diehard fans who've been around for 20+ years isn't the most sustainable way of handling the game, and it's starting to show.

That reminds me, I came across this great video essay today, and pretty much every word in it is also spot on for Magic, especially the parts about entropy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5tmxfVWDgMM

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 21, 2023 6:51 pm 
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Even though it's been quite a while since Luna has been around, I still want to say...

Happy Birthday, Luna!

I hope you are having (or, if you read this in the future, did have) a wonderful day.

Admittedly, if you are reading this in the future, I hope you have a wonderful day in the present, as well. But still, happy birthday!


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 22, 2023 9:48 pm 
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Even though it's been quite a while since Luna has been around, I still want to say...

Happy Birthday, Luna!

I hope you are having (or, if you read this in the future, did have) a wonderful day.

Admittedly, if you are reading this in the future, I hope you have a wonderful day in the present, as well. But still, happy birthday!

I plan to send Luna a xmas care package here in the next couple of weeks, so I'll enclose any birthday wishes from all of us here with that.
Been a while since I got an email, but I expect to hear back after the package arrives.

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 23, 2023 1:02 am 
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Barinellos wrote:
Even though it's been quite a while since Luna has been around, I still want to say...

Happy Birthday, Luna!

I hope you are having (or, if you read this in the future, did have) a wonderful day.

Admittedly, if you are reading this in the future, I hope you have a wonderful day in the present, as well. But still, happy birthday!

I plan to send Luna a xmas care package here in the next couple of weeks, so I'll enclose any birthday wishes from all of us here with that.
Been a while since I got an email, but I expect to hear back after the package arrives.

Thanks. I appreciate the gesture. Hopefully things are going alright.


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Barinellos wrote:
Even though it's been quite a while since Luna has been around, I still want to say...

Happy Birthday, Luna!

I hope you are having (or, if you read this in the future, did have) a wonderful day.

Admittedly, if you are reading this in the future, I hope you have a wonderful day in the present, as well. But still, happy birthday!

I plan to send Luna a xmas care package here in the next couple of weeks, so I'll enclose any birthday wishes from all of us here with that.
Been a while since I got an email, but I expect to hear back after the package arrives.

I'd like to offer my best wishes as well.

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I'm sorry I haven't been around; I have been so overwhelmed that what planned to be a little two-week disconnect back in September to reset has turned into more than two months of radio silence .( ̵˃﹏˂̵ ) I'm sorry


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thank you friends

I'm sorry I haven't been around; I have been so overwhelmed that what planned to be a little two-week disconnect back in September to reset has turned into more than two months of radio silence .( ̵˃﹏˂̵ ) I'm sorry

No worries. It's always good to see you.

Hopefully things calm down and get a little less overwhelming soon.


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Had a dream about my ex again. So, that was... Yeah.

Besides that, I halfway want to revive a discussion we were having ages and ages ago about 90's music. I bumped into the actual music video for Pepper and it was kinda surreal to see the nostalgia and ennui expressed almost universally in the comments section. There's a weird suspension in the zeitgeist that misses the 90's more than most decades I've seen and there's something specifically in the music that seems to feed it.

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 30, 2023 1:36 pm 
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Barinellos wrote:
Had a dream about my ex again. So, that was... Yeah.

Besides that, I halfway want to revive a discussion we were having ages and ages ago about 90's music. I bumped into the actual music video for Pepper and it was kinda surreal to see the nostalgia and ennui expressed almost universally in the comments section. There's a weird suspension in the zeitgeist that misses the 90's more than most decades I've seen and there's something specifically in the music that seems to feed it.

I think part of that is that the 90s was the decade where music really started to massively diverge, where people we getting a ton of different sounds from some new vectors, like CDs (introduced in the 80s but widely accessible in the 90s), TV (MTV, VH1, Country Music Television, and the invention of those satellite music stations), Computers, and even the radio was still reasonably popular, so I think music spread out in the 90s moreso than in previous decades. The 70s and 80s, admittedly, also saw some significant music spread, from the evolution of Rock into its various categories, to disco, to singer-songwriters, to the introduction of hip-hop in the late 70s and throughout the 80s, so they have a claim, as well, but I feel like the 90s proliferated that more.

The other thing, though, is that it might be a case of data bias. Traditional advertising has always focused most heavily on that 18-39 age group, with the high end usually considered to have the most stable income (though the young end considered more desirable because of freer and more reckless spending). And people who were kids in the 90s are now coming up on the upper end of that spectrum. I have long felt that nostalgia is stronger in this generation than it ever was before, but I'm not sure that's necessarily true. I think there are just more vectors to capture and monetize that nostalgia now. So the people who are most inclined to be nostalgic about 90s music are the generation that has the most targeting done to them because of the ubiquitousness of the Internet.

Someone who is, say, twenty years older than I am did not have instant and easy access to the music of the seventies. Oh, sure, they had tapes, and cds, and the beginning of mp3s when they were my age, but they hadn't lived most of their lives with those things. They were "new." (Okay, tapes weren't. But I'm mostly thinking about the Internet here...). We are now seeing the generation that grew up with technology get to the point where if they want to hear a song they're nostalgic for, they can. In a matter of seconds. And when they get there, there's a host of people like them who want to reminisce, as well, like-minded people who grew up at the same time, people who remember what they were listening to when OJ was being chased down the highway or when Lady Diana died, and so they post about their experiences, and they are near enough to ours that we feel connected, which increases our perceived connection to the music.

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Or, you know, 90s music is just really good. :paranoid:

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Or, you know, 90s music is just really good. :paranoid:

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:D
*nods in Nirvana* :nod:

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New Godzilla movie is pretty damn good

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I'm stuck out with my family for the next week and a am so stressed out

You and me both, buddy. I'm a day into a six day sentence, and I am already miserable. I just need to get through the week...

Anyway, may all of you have a better holiday season than I am likely to have.


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I genuinely wish there was something I could do to improve your circumstances for the holidays, the both of you.

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Oof, may your holidays be unexpectedly tolerable.

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